Clothing. The second skin that encases us. Cocoons us. Protects us—from the elements and the snare of social embarrassment. It allows us to fit in, to stand out. It hugs the body, drapes it, surrounds it.
But clothing is more than just fabric. It is the work of many unseen hands—hands that have harvested raw materials, crafted textiles, designed, and manufactured each piece.These invisible hands are encoded into the stitches, the seams, and the very fabric itself, reverberating through every garment in a symphony of vibrations, all culminating in that one piece: hanging on a rack, waiting in a box to be delivered, ready to enter our lives.
From that moment on, a new relationship begins. One between ourselves and this garment. A relationship that evolves as we project our stories, feelings, and memories onto it, while it, in turn, shapes our own sense of self. As we wear it, it wears us—this dance of fabric and body merging, subtly shifting. Do you sense it? The give and take of body to fabric, and fabric to body? The living history embedded in every fiber, every stitch?
We often view “things” in our lives—objects, possessions—as inert, lifeless. This perception justifies a culture of waste and disposability. How could a shift in perspective change that? What if we were to perceive our clothes not as static objects but as vibrant, living narratives—woven stories that intertwine with our own? Could the act of dressing become a conscious choice to participate in this symphony, a deliberate mixing of vibrations and histories?
In doing so, how might we evolve our relationship with fashion? How might our understanding of sustainability and slow fashion shift when we begin to see clothing as an embodied experience—a practice of mindfulness that deepens our connection to the things we wear?
I believe in the practice of slowing down, of getting present with what is here, right in front of us, as a doorway into greater fulfillment and integrity with life. Open your closet, take out a few of your favorite and not-so-favorite pieces. Get present to them, smell, touch, feel. What arises in your awareness? Memories, feelings, sentiments? Ask yourself: “If this garment could speak, what would it say?” Wait to hear its answer. Now put the clothing on. Feel the stories you now embody, the ones you now choose to wear.
In this quiet exchange between fabric and body, body and fabric, we bring to the forefront the intricate interconnectedness of our experience, where each garment becomes a vessel for story, memory, and connection to this moment.
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Written by Daniela Yakuel
Daniela is a researcher and facilitator focused on the intersection of slow fashion and mindfulness. Currently pursuing thesis research in the MA Fashion Studies program at Parsons School of Design, her writing invites readers to rethink their relationship with clothing as a living, evolving narrative, encouraging a more conscious, interconnected approach to slow fashion.
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